How to live - Derek Sivers - Scott Goggins

 


Ok so picture you just got done a family function and you and your drunk uncle who has lived a crazy life get to talking. Your uncle is going on a massive rant about his life. This includes all his mistakes, highs and lows, good advice and bad advice and how he used to date 3 women but then realized he wanted to become a pastor for 2 years. Meanwhile you are a straight edge young adult who's craziest story is sneaking out with your buddies to drink in a field. That's essentially what this book is like. It's a whirlwind of sentences and claims of how you should live your life from one extreme to the next. It has you questioning if you are 'living life' or is 'life passing you by'. You will be in a state of uptight justification saying sentence such as 'I can't just move to Russia, who would pay for that?'. That is the beauty of it because it shakes up your life with such extremes that there is a little bit of truth behind it. It's very comical and I highlighted a lot of things. In between the crazy statements there is a lot of truth which will hit you in various ways depending on where you are at in life. The last chapter is a great way to end it plus it's not a long read.


I think its safe to say that everyone will get something different out of this book whether good or bad but due to it's size I recommend you to read it. I will say I strongly think that if you are against self growth or are very set in your views/life then this is not the book for you. It's for someone who is ever expanding and always striving to look at life in many different ways.

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