Man’s Guide to Women - Gottman and Gottman - 2016
I can’t say it is a good sign that I am reading this book. Jajajaj It is an embarrassment mostly but anyways knowledge is knowledge right? Jaja I can’t say this book was super helpful or matched my experience really. In some cases I disagree with the authors. I think the main surprise of this book is the overall portrayal of women. I thought since it is 2026 women want to pay for the first date and aren’t emotional and don’t want to hold your hand and and don’t care if you hold the door for them and want to take control in sex and other relationship matters. This is what I get from watching tv and hearing about women wanting more equality. But this book basically says the opposite based on their studies: essentially that men have the power in the relationship and that women are fragile and need to be held and listened to. This is surprising to me! This book is 10 years old and my assumption is that dating changes pretty rapidly. Maybe that is the problem. Or idk maybe I am ...

Good first post! I think we should do put the book title and the author in the title slot!
ReplyDeleteok got it thanks
DeleteAnd maybe a picture of the book at the beginning
ReplyDeleteok what we should do is invite gram and eric and possible the whole family after we get this going. Gram is likely the most powerful reader we know.
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